tunesday: march 2026

a square image of an old brick building covered with the remnants of winter dormant ivy, there is a bare-brached tree to the left and gray sky above

and the light today / reminded me of the winter you drove home

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a blurry and poorly lit photo of a group of strangers walking on a sidewalk in los angeles at night taken by ash in july 2010

I was just going to start rambling about how I listened to the Decemberists’ entire discography again and had a good time and then I realized I hadn’t copied and pasted the header in this post so I went to do that only to discover that I already talked about re-listening to the Decemberists… Cruelties of fate.

I was also going to talk about how I listened to a bunch of Bad Religion but then I typed a sentence and went… Where did I already type this? And it turns out it was tumblr (yes, tumblr still exists, yes there are people still using it, yes we’re having a great time thanks) where I got tagged in a meme and wrote about what I had been listening to, so let’s cheat the system and share that!

stuff i was listening to the week of february 6th:

(i heard the cover first and i think it’s really interesting to hear them back to back, how little he had to change to make it from the man’s perspective and how unsettling they both are for different reasons, i love covers and i love when they’re in conversation with each other!!)

  • melissa etheridge, “like the way i do” (incredibleeeee of the time styling in that video lmao – also my sister gave me a melissa etheridge album for christmas when i was like 10 and later on we were both like, ohhhhh yeah lmaooo)
  • wheatus, “love is a mutt from hell” (WHEATUS IS DEEPLY UNDERRATED!!!! even “teenage dirtbag” doesn’t get the credit it deserves!!!!! me and one guy on reddit get it)
  • bad religion, “21st century digital boy” (as a born and bred southern californian i am legally obliged to like bad religion but i also just like them normal-style, in many ways it is country music for people who grew up eating in-n-out bc it was cheap – this song was extremely prescient and then it seemed out of touch and now it’s gone back around again)

in general i have been listening to my february playlist and also your crystals cleansing and chardonnay aunt’s favorites because the weather is alternating between miserable and tricking me with false spring

I finished listening to You Should Be So Lucky by Cat Sebastian which I thought was delightful. I feel like I’ve read a lot of books this year, but I think I’ve just been consistent enough about reading every day (at least 15 minutes at a time, at least twice a day!) that it seems like I’m blowing through things but I’m really not. Which is fine! But confusing.

We’ve been spending most of our time working to get the guest bedroom/rest of the house in order for our friends who are coming to visit at the end of the month so most of my brain energy has been there. I did use our George Foreman grill the other night and remembered how much I love it. I survived college on the original version 20+ years ago and it continues to work exactly the way you need it too with little change except the one I have now is bigger. The infomercials had it right sometimes!

And also I guess if you too are in the Twin Cities, I highly recommend The Clapping Monkey coffee in (as our house search birthed, “I don’t want to live in damn honky
”) Fridley. By far the best iced mocha I’ve had in god knows how long and some great grilled cheeses also!

Okay, I guess that’s it? We haven’t made our donations yet this month, but I think we’ll probably donate to some more mutual aid groups and I hope you’ll find some close to you or in a vulnerable area and do that too!

tunesday: february 2026

a square image of an icy, snow-lined road leading toward a sunset seen through trees both bare deciduous and evergreen

or the feathers / of some unimaginable bird / that loves us

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a blurry and poorly lit photo of a group of strangers walking on a sidewalk in los angeles at night taken by ash in july 2010

You know it’s bad out there. I know it’s bad out there. I’m incredibly proud and grateful and amazed by the bravery and good I have seen people do. I’m going to talk about some pop culture type shit now.

I re-listened to the entire Decemberists discography in order this week and it was deeply enjoyable. I’m probably a bigger fan of their later catalog and The Hazards of Love remains my favorite album, but there really aren’t any misses in the bunch.

I also listened to Yasmine Hamdan’s I remember I forget — loved it right away and four or five listens later I am only more enamored. (Shoutout to Tommy for the rec!) — and Gully Boys’ self-titled album also got a handful of listens this month and is a great time, though my biggest repeat by far is “Big Boobs (ft. Zora)” which is an absolute banger.

We’re still rewatching The West Wing and frankly the less said about it the better (though that won’t stop me from posting later babey!), but I am fascinated by how much North Dakota gets mentioned and I really wonder who on the staff has the connection/random attachment. Also who’s the hockey fan because I don’t think there’s any American show that’s ever referenced it so much.

We also finally watched episode six of Heated Rivalry which was fine! I think I was always going to be hard on the show because the book does so many things I love. I did think the family stuff turned out fine, but I will remain disappointed by the changes made to Shane’s mom’s character (and Scott Hunter’s backstory, but that’s not relevant here) and it made it all less impactful, though if I’d come in without having read the book I’m sure it would’ve been great.

Okay, I think that’s it! We’ve been throwing money at various local groups and food drives, so I am recommending mutual aid through Liberation Twin Cities today, if you can spare it. Thank you! I love you!

tunesday: january 2026

a square image of a frozen lake with a smudge of distant shore and a dark inlet on the left, there is snowy shore in the foreground marked with animal prints

there / are blizzards, and there are blizzards. / some contain us; some we carry

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